Who's Saving Who?

Who has the right to say or judge if a person needs saving or not? I thought I was over the whole Messiah Complex bit but apparently this is something that is harder to let go off. I don't really know what to do anymore or if I'm at the right state of mind and heart. There are just too many ideals running through my head and I don't know how to come to terms with them. When will things ever fall into place for me? Will somebody come and save me? Cos' I honestly don't think I can keep doing this for too long..

Everybody leaves at one point or another.. whether it's for a good reason or not. Regardless, the people who get left behind always end up getting hurt..

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HOW TO SAVE A LIFE
The Fray

Step one you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
And you begin to wonder why you came

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life

Let him know that you know best
Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And pray to God he hears you

As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life

How to save a life